在奥斯卡还没有提名之前无意中看到,看完后完全被这种美好甜到了,那个夏天属于他们,他们之间的故事属于夏天。
影片结尾处父亲原话,父亲的事后烟。     在看完请以你的名字呼唤我、水形物语和三个广告牌后,我依旧坚持请以你的名字呼唤我是最佳。故事发生在意大利南部的小镇,想很多美好的爱情发生在夏日的假期一样,他们也是在烈烈夏日中相遇。刚开始男孩的心意迷乱和大叔的小心翼翼,就是两颗心逐渐靠近的过程,一切都发生的那么顺其自然,让人都忘记了性别,因为爱足以让这一切那么珍贵,没人舍得去破坏。在男孩的“你知道我的意思吧”的表白后,和你知道我哪里也不会去。两个人的甜蜜开始冒泡泡,开始飘散,看着他弹钢琴、阳光下游泳,沙滩排球的触摸、流鼻血后的捏脚,温柔的呵护着,小心翼翼的试探着,在秘密水塘和午夜来见我后,终于可以坦诚的面对彼此,可是啊,夏天你是那么长又是那么短,离别到了,可是他们才刚刚开始啊,,,
     本剧最舒心的存在,男孩的父母,让整部戏变得温柔无比,允许两人去享受夏日的最后时光,妈妈在分别后去车站接脆弱无比的男孩,爸爸告诉他,这是一段珍贵的经历,在年轻时候能完整的爱别人,永远不要丧失爱别人的能力,引用整段话如下:“”You
had a beautiful friendship. Maybe more than a friendship. And I envy
you. In my place, most parents would hope the whole thing goes away, or
pray that their sons land on their feet soon enough. But I am not such a
parent. In your place, if there is pain, nurse it, and if there is a
flame, don’t snuff it out, don’t be brutal with it. Withdrawal can be a
terrible thing when it keeps us awake at night, and watching others
forget us sooner than we’d want to be forgotten is no bet¬ter. We rip
out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should
that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each
time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel
anything—what a waste!”
“How you live your life is your business. But remember, our hearts and
our bodies are given to us only once. Most of us can’t help but live as
though we’ve got two lives to live, one is the mockup, the other the
finished version, and then there are all those versions in between. But
there’s only one, and before you know it, your heart is worn out, and,
as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less
wants to come near it.
”你有一段美好的友谊,也许超过了友谊。我羡慕你。在我看来,多数父母都希望这一切烟消云散。祈祷他们的孩子就此收手。但是——我不是这样的父母,为了快速愈合,我们从自己身上剥夺了太多的东西,以致在三十岁时,自己的感情就已破产。每开始一段新的感情,我们能给予的便更少。但是为了让我们不要有感觉而不去感觉任何事情,是多么的浪费。我说多错话了吗?——那我再说一件事情。让我们开诚布公,我也许曾经接近,但我从来没拥有过你们拥有的。总有些什么在阻挠我,或是挡在我面前。如何过一生是你自己的事情,你只要记住。上天赐予我们赋予我们的身体和心灵只有一次,而在你领悟之前,你的心已经疲惫不堪了。至于你的身体,总有一天,没有人愿意再看他一眼,更没有人愿意接近。现在,你充满了悲伤,痛苦,现在,你别让这些悲伤痛苦消失。也别丧失你感受到的快乐。”这段话让电影回味无穷。
     像是自己陷入一场爱恋无法自拔,回过头来看,依旧无比美好

You had a beautiful friendship. Maybe more than a friendship. And I envy
you. In my place, most parents would hope the whole thing goes away, or
pray that their sons land on their feet soon enough. But I am not such a
parent. In your place, if there is pain, nurse it, and if there is a
flame, don’t snuff it out, don’t be brutal with it. Withdrawal can be a
terrible thing when it keeps us awake at night, and watching others
forget us sooner than we’d want to be forgotten is no better. We rip out
so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we
go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we
start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel
anything—what a waste!”

“You had a beautiful friendship. Maybe more than a friendship. And I
envy you. In my place, most parents would hope the whole thing goes
away, or pray that their sons land on their feet soon enough. But I am
not such a parent. In your place, if there is pain, nurse it, and if
there is a flame, don’t snuff it out, don’t be brutal with it.
Withdrawal can be a terrible thing when it keeps us awake at night, and
watching others forget us sooner than we’d want to be forgotten is no
bet¬ter. We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster
than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to
offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not
to feel anything—what a waste!”
“How you live your life is your business. But remember, our hearts and
our bodies are given to us only once. Most of us can’t help but live as
though we’ve got two lives to live, one is the mockup, the other the
finished version, and then there are all those versions in between. But
there’s only one, and before you know it, your heart is worn out, and,
as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less
wants to come near it. ”

When you least expect it, Nature has cunning ways of finding our weakest
spot. Just remember: I am here. Right now you may not want to feel
anything. Perhaps you never wished to feel anything. And perhaps it’s
not to me that you’ll want to speak about these things. But feel
something you obviously did.

抱歉,撸多了,一开始是很猴急的,但耐着性子看了两个多小时,中途倒带了几处。
    第一印象:这书香门第,这开放程度,只可远观。
    那个暖阳煦煦的夏日,有的不仅是躁动的青春,还有中年人的唏嘘和关心,谈笑有鸿儒,这可能是故事能走向happy
ending的最重要原因了,Elio的父母无疑是睿智的、超前的,片尾父亲的一番话摘录如下”You
had a beautiful friendship. Maybe more than a friendship. And I envy
you. In my place, most parents would hope the whole thing goes away, or
pray that their sons land on their feet soon enough. But I am not such a
parent. In your place, if there is pain, nurse it, and if there is a
flame, don’t snuff it out, don’t be brutal with it. Withdrawal can be a
terrible thing when it keeps us awake at night, and watching others
forget us sooner than we’d want to be forgotten is no bet¬ter. We rip
out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should
that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each
time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel
anything—what a waste!”
“How you live your life is your business. But remember, our hearts and
our bodies are given to us only once. Most of us can’t help but live as
though we’ve got two lives to live, one is the mockup, the other the
finished version, and then there are all those versions in between. But
there’s only one, and before you know it, your heart is worn out, and,
as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less
wants to come near it. ”
    对电影不作道德评判,本就是各人下雪,何况是高于生活的艺术作品。有个小想法,本片会不会是Elio父亲的一场梦呢,事后烟看似潇洒,经历的故事却不常对外讲,Elio的眼泪,你的眼泪,我的眼泪,在感情生活里流的泪,虽能共情,怕也是五味陈杂吧。
    第一段已空四个字符,不怪我。
    以下为臆想‘,光明节可能是特意设置的,本就是为破旧立新而创设的节日,兽人永不为奴!

© 本文版权归作者 
zhangxiaoya
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How you live your life is your business. But remember, our hearts and
our bodies are given to us only once. Most of us can’t help but live as
though we’ve got two lives to live, one is the mockup, the other the
finished version, and then there are all those versions in between. But
there’s only one, and before you know it, your heart is worn out, and,
as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less
wants to come near it.

You had a beautiful friendship. Maybe more than a friendship. And I envy
you. In my place, most parents would hope the whole thing goes away, to
pray that their sons land on their feet. But I am not such a parent. In
your place, if there is pain, nurse it. And if there is a flame, don’t
snuff it out. Don’t be brutal with it. We rip out so much of ourselves
to be cured of things faster, that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty
and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to make
yourself feel nothing so as not to feel anything ― what a waste!

© 本文版权归作者  Genio
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I may have come close, but I never had what you had. Something always
held me back or stood in the way. How you live your life is your
business. But remember, our hearts and our bodies are given to us only
once. Most of us can’t help but live as though we’ve got two lives to
live, one is the mockup, the other the finished version, and then there
are all those versions in between. But there’s only one, and before you
know it, your heart is worn out, and, as for your body, there comes a
point when no one looks at it, much less wants to come near it. Right
now there’s sorrow. I don’t envy the pain. But I envy you the pain.

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